In-person mediation available in London and the Southeast

A clearer, faster and more constructive alternative to going to court.
For families who want to reduce conflict, find agreement and protect what matters most.

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How We Help

When a relationship ends, it can feel overwhelming knowing where to start or how to move forward. With an experienced mediator guiding the process in a calm, neutral and respectful way, legal outcome can be obtained by consent after agreements are reached in mediation.

Family mediation gives you a structured, supportive space to resolve decisions around:

Property Matters

Separation logistics

Children & co-parenting

Long-term arrangements

Financial Support Is Available

The Ministry of Justice are currently providing families with a £500 voucher to help with the cost of mediation, where there are children are involved. I can support you with those details.

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Mediation Is Quicker Than Court

Mediation is recognised as a quicker, cheaper and less stressful alternative to the court system for separating and divorcing couples​.
You both get to decide your outcome, with my support.

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Mediation Is Less Stressful Than Court

I can help you reach agreements for child arrangements which will benefit the whole family. Going to court can further damage your relationship as co-parents moving forward.

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Final Agreements Can Be Made Legal

With my help, agreements can be made in a safe and confidential space to suit both parties. All agreements can then go on to be made into legally binding orders through the courts.

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Mediation empowers family members to actively engage in decision-making, enabling you to have a say in shaping agreements that reflect your unique circumstances.
Unlike court-imposed rulings, we work together to reach tailor-made and flexible solutions that address the specific needs and concerns of your family.

Our mediation services

We support families across London, South East & nationwide through:

Child Arrangement Mediation
Create practical child-focused agreements that support stability, routine and wellbeing.

Financial Matters Mediation

Discuss finances, assets and housing arrangements in a structured and transparent way.
MIAM
Mediation

A legal requirement before most court applications – helping you understand your options clearly.

Online Mediation (Nationwide)

Flexible, convenient and just as effective as all of our in-person sessions.

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Julia

Founder, Mediator & PPC
Julia is an Accredited Family Mediator and founder of Alliance Family Mediation, and a member of the Family Mediation Council and Family Mediation Association. Known for her calm, empathetic and solution-focused approach, she supports families through separation with clarity, respect and practical guidance.
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Emma

Mediator
Emma is an Accredited Family Mediator and former family solicitor, with extensive experience supporting families through separation. Drawing on her legal background without becoming legalistic, Emma brings a calm, practical and supportive approach to helping families find constructive ways forward.
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Pam

Administration
Pam is the Admin Manager and brings extensive experience from the legal sector. With a calm, organised and compassionate approach, she supports clients from their first point of contact, ensuring every enquiry is handled with care, clarity and professionalism during what can often be a difficult time.
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what to expect

Book a Free Consultation Call
A short, welcoming chat to help you understand the best next steps
MIAM
Meeting
A confidential meeting where your mediator explains the process and assesses suitability

Joint Mediation
Meeting

Vew options, discuss concerns and work towards an agreement at a pace that feels manageable
Your
Agreement
We provide a clear written summary of what’s been agreed, ready for legal advice if needed

"I was literally at my wits end before I found Julia, and exhausted from arguing all the time. We finally managed to agree on decisions about our future & I can sleep again!"

Private Client

What is a MIAM
The law says that you must show that you have at least considered mediation before you can take a case to court, unless there are special circumstances involved, like domestic violence.
Do we have to be in the same room?
No. You’ll need to legally end your marriage or civil partnership, but you won’t have to physically go to court for this. I can support you with the documents you will need to submit, and when to do that.
What if I’d rather go to court?
The law says that you must show that you have at least considered mediation before you can take a case to court, unless there are special circumstances involved, like domestic violence.
Can a mediator give me a divorce?
No. You’ll need to legally end your marriage or civil partnership, but you won’t have to physically go to court for this. I can support you with the documents you will need to submit, and when to do that.
Do we have to pay for mediation?

Legal aid is available for mediation. This means that if you’re eligible, it might be free for you. I can show you where to go for eligibility checks.

Is mediation about trying to get us to stay together?
No. Mediators are not counsellors, and will not suggest you stay together.
I help you work out what happens when you split up.
A calmer, clearer path forward:
Whether you’re navigating children arrangements, finances or the logistics of separation, you don’t have to do it alone.

We’re here to support you with structure, clarity and a genuinely impartial space to move forward.

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(and get the guidance you need to take the next step with confidence).

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Family Mediation Voucher Scheme
Eligibility for New Mediation Voucher Scheme
The family mediation voucher scheme is a time-limited scheme, designed to support parties who may be able to resolve their family law disputes outside of court. A financial contribution of up to £500 towards the costs of mediation will be provided, if eligible.
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Helping families across Kent and nationwide reach calm, amicable agreements through expert family mediation - a more supportive and cost-effective alternative to court. Stay in control of the outcome, with clear guidance and a steady, empathetic approach every step of the way.
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